I just discovered a genius podcast that couldn’t be more relevant to my life right now. Each episode reminds me that I am not alone in this mothering game. It’s called The Longest Shortest Time and it’s really well-produced. Hillary Frank, of This American Life and other public radio programs, is the host. She covers really REAL topics about being new parents and babies– universal issues like sleep and eating as well as tragic topics like stillbirths and near death deliveries. The podcasts are fairly short, running about 15 minutes each and give you a glimpse into the life of other parents and caregivers, and how they’re experiencing life with baby. If you haven’t heard it yet, I recommend it. It’s a nice way to pass the time while I’m playing with Cielo…and it sure beats listening to Raffi for the millionth time!! Check out The Longest Shortest Time here, also available for subscription on iTunes.
(above image from The Longest Shortest Time website)
p.s. just kidding about Raffi, I actually like him (insert monkey covering eyes emoji).
I’ve always loved fashion and shopping but nothing ever prepared me for the obsession that is baby clothes. There is way too much cuteness out there. I hardly even care what I wear anymore, I have way more fun putting together Cielo’s outfits. My latest hobby involves filling my virtual shopping carts with every article of teeny tiny garments I lay my eyes on and then restraining myself from hitting “purchase” on all of it! Let me tell you friends, it is hard! I’ve been discovering so many baby boutiques online that make unique and darling clothes for little ones…and I want it ALL! I’m especially smitten with Wolfe Child by Illinois-based designer, Claire Wolfe Bookmeier. Each piece is handcrafted to adorable perfection. Head over to the Wolfe Child shop to see more.
Happy anniversary to us! Four years ago today I married my favorite guy on the planet and now we have a little family! It’s amazing how fast time flies by! So cliché but so true. It’s like I blinked and we went from meeting on the first day of college to being parents! This post has become a tradition on the blog, so like I did last year and the year before, I’d like to share my thoughts on our fourth year of marriage. Would you like to hear?
I recently discovered this book via Instagram and I decided I’d buy it. It was so intriguing, that I also decided to follow the program for 30 days. Whole30 is basically a strict paleo diet intended to both cleanse your insides and break you of your unhealthy food addictions. Mine is sugar for sure. Somehow, I convinced Evan to do it as well which is awesome because we’ll ride it out as a team. I love doing cleanses a few times per year. Whether juicing, fasting or eating whole foods only, a cleanse diet is always a good thing for me– mind, body and soul. So for the month of June, we’ll be omitting sugars, grains, dairy, legumes, alcohol, soy and all processed foods from our diet. What’s left you ask? A plethora of clean eats– all proteins, leafy greens and veggies, fruit galore and healthy fats (i.e. coconut oil, ghee, olive oil, etc.). We often eat paleo so I don’t think this will be a huge departure from our regular diet but I will miss the occasional morning muffin or crumbled chèvre on my salads.
I’ll be sharing our favorite recipes with you – as long as baby allows, that is! It’s hard enough to cook with her around, let alone style, photograph and write a blog post. But I’ll do my best!
Today, I’m sharing one of our favorite soups. I know it’s not exactly soup season but this recipe is a staple at our house all year long. It can be made with any gourd or root veggie really, but we like butternut squash the best (sweet potato is a close second). This one pot meal includes all sorts of good stuff and it’s big enough to serve the whole family or have leftovers for the week. Plus, you can throw it together in minutes, but it’ll taste like you spent hours in the kitchen. I hope you enjoy!
So I have to admit, preparing for Cielo’s arrival was not at all fun for me. There were so many little teensy tiny decisions to make and they all seemed important! Disposable diapers or cloth? Co-sleeper or bassinet? Finding the right monitor, breast pump, baby wash…heck, even what diaper bag I needed was overwhelming for me. It was so bad that I had an anxiety attack at Babies R Us one afternoon!! …okay, it wasn’t a real anxiety attack but I was so overwhelmed with how much stuff we needed and how to choose it all, that I literally broke down crying (pregnancy hormones are real people!). But when it came to designing Cielo’s room, I had no anxiety. I knew exactly what I wanted: a modern, pieced together feel that wasn’t too girly, with only a smidge of “baby”. We still have a few missing details but below are some pictures of Cielo’s nursery if you’d like to see.
p.s. She turned 10 weeks old on Friday…time really does just fly right by!
Happy Friday! And happy almost Cinco de Mayo!! It’s one of my favorite celebration days of the year and while margaritas aren’t exactly conducive to breastfeeding, I think I’ll be making an exception for my favorite spicy libation
(sorry baby! Momma needs a drink!)). Here are some fun posts to inspire any Cinco de Mayo fiesta! Have an awesome weekend! -xo
I’ve been wanting to write this post since Cielo was born but I thought I’d wait a little to see how things pan out. One month in and I stand by the statement that breastfeeding is hard. And you know what? Every single mom that I have spoken to since Cielo’s birth has said the exact same thing. One even told me she thought it was almost harder than labor itself!
So why is this something I never knew before having the baby? Why isn’t this topic shared in more birth classes and prenatal appointments? Why didn’t my midwife tell me I may have a hard time with one of the most elementary aspects of being a mom? Breastfeeding has been the number one topic of conversation concerning the baby in my household. And after speaking to so many moms and hearing similar stories to mine, I thought it was time we had an open and honest conversation about the trials and triumphs of breastfeeding. I want to know your stories. Did you find it hard to nurse your baby? How did you cope? Were you more successful? What can you share with new moms to help them along?
I encourage everyone to comment on this post (the more advice, stories, knowledge, the better), but let’s all be supportive of each others thoughts and parenting philosophies (including mine). How you feed your baby can be such a hot topic and I don’t believe in parent shaming. We all do what we need to do to keep our kids safe, happy and healthy, right? Right!
So let’s talk about breastfeeding…